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Future Leaders Need to do This, and NOW!
Why shifting from reactivity to responsiveness is non-negotiable “My boss really needs to get better at identifying his triggers.” That’s...

Ariana Friedlander
Sep 4, 20255 min read


Is Authenticity an Excuse?
Challenging the Assumptions We Make About “Being Ourselves” The other day, during a listening training I was leading, a participant...

Ariana Friedlander
Aug 21, 20254 min read


It's All Here - the news you've been waiting for
TL;DR - Entrepreneurship's an emotionally whack journey. Our website's been refreshed . We have a new program - Giving Feedback with CARE...

Ariana Friedlander
Jul 24, 20256 min read


4 Ways to Know When a Hard Conversation is Actually Going Well
"I tried being truthful about what was on my mind and it blew up in my face." That's what a client recently said to me as we were...

Ariana Friedlander
Jul 17, 20255 min read


Why Explaining the Why Isn’t Optional Anymore
And How It Can Transform Team Performance One Conversation at a Time During a Leadership Fort Collins session earlier this year, a moment...

Ariana Friedlander
Jul 10, 20253 min read


What a Haunted Space House Can Teach Us About Leadership
My daughter just wrapped up her favorite camp of the year: Kids Do It All Theater Camp . Taken from KDIA - the summer camp And they...

Ariana Friedlander
Jun 26, 20253 min read


14 years ago this month...
Fourteen years ago this month, I resigned from my job to start Rosabella Consulting. I actually dreamt about giving notice and could read...

Ariana Friedlander
Jun 12, 20254 min read


Part 3: The New Leadership Challenge - Why Emotional Intelligence Is Imperative
Thriving in a Complex World Requires More Than Smarts—It Requires Humanity Complexity Is the New Constant We are living in one of the...

Ariana Friedlander
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Part 2: The New Leadership Challenge - How to Stay Compassionate When You’re the Punching Bag
De-escalation, Boundaries, and Leadership on the Front Lines When the Frustration Isn’t Really About You After weeks of receiving...

Ariana Friedlander
May 29, 20253 min read


Part 1: The New Leadership Challenge - When the Wrong Inbox Gets the Right Lesson
What a Case of Mistaken Identity Revealed About Communication in Crisis At the start of this year, I found myself dealing with a very...

Ariana Friedlander
May 22, 20252 min read


The Simple Trick to Break Free from Circular Conversations
One of the things I love most (and yes, sometimes groan about) in my work as a leadership coach and facilitator is how quickly the root...

Ariana Friedlander
May 8, 20252 min read


When Mediation Feels Like Failure — And Why It’s Actually a Radical Act of Leadership
Let’s face it—conflict at work is uncomfortable. Whether it’s a simmering tension in a team meeting or a full-blown misunderstanding...

Ariana Friedlander
Apr 24, 20254 min read


Asserting Boundaries When Tested - Lessons from a 10 year old
My daughter has a friend who consistently illustrates just how hard it can be to hold a boundary. Recently, she told me about a situation at school. There’s a clear rule: students do not ask adults their age. No exceptions. One day, they had a guest speaker, and this friend of hers immediately asked, “How old are you?” Her classmates quickly reminded her, “Hey, we’re not supposed to ask adults their age.” And her friend’s response? “I know, I just want to know how old she

Ariana Friedlander
Apr 3, 20254 min read


One Reason Why Asserting Effective Boundaries is Hard and What To Do About It
My 8 month old kitten has been significantly bigger than my 5 year old cat for the majority of the time we've had her. Despite that, the...

Ariana Friedlander
Dec 11, 20244 min read


The fallacy of "making it work"
I had a client—we’ll call her Linda—who had an employee—we’ll call him Manny—who struggled to get along with team members. Manny had...
Ariana Friedlander
Oct 9, 20242 min read


Breaking the silence
I went to a Quaker middle school. Every Wednesday we had meeting. In the Quaker tradition, meeting is a worship practice in community...

Ariana Friedlander
Oct 2, 20242 min read


When things don't go as expected
This is something I've silently struggled with for years. Sometimes when things don't go as planned, I push on despite the evidence...

Ariana Friedlander
Jun 12, 20241 min read


The Feeling that Must Not be Named
As a parent, I recall distinctly the moment my child started to feel shame because she suddenly avoided making eye contact with me. That...

Ariana Friedlander
Mar 20, 20242 min read


Working around the Praise Paradox
In an effort to utilize more positive reinforcement as a parent, I'll compliment my child when I notice healthy behaviors. Unfortunately,...

Ariana Friedlander
Sep 7, 20234 min read


The secret to finding and using your voice
My client self-identified as a highly sensitive person. She engaged my support because she was struggling to find and use her voice at...

Ariana Friedlander
Aug 16, 20233 min read
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