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To Reset or Not to Reset
The other week, my daughter’s keyboard stopped working with her iPad. We did the standard dance - checked the Bluetooth, ensured the battery was charged, nothing worked. Finally we did the simple-but-tedious fix: turned the iPad off and back on. Suddenly, everything connected again. That’s what a reset is. Not fairy dust. Not a calendar trick. It’s action. New Year’s ≠ New You A lot of us look at New Year’s like a natural reset. The calendar changes and we hope our lives do,

Ariana Friedlander
5 days ago3 min read


The secret productivity hack that'll help you thrive in 2025
Whenever we start a new Lego set, the first thing we do is sort the pieces by color. It takes a little bit of time on the front end. And...

Ariana Friedlander
Jan 8, 20253 min read


Fuel for 2025
There's a spot on the Poudre River where a tree has fallen across the water. Where it sounds like a babbling brook regardless of the rate...

Ariana Friedlander
Jan 2, 20253 min read


Reflections on 2024
"I got so many things done and so much of this year didn't go as planned." This was the predominant thought I had as I completed the...

Ariana Friedlander
Dec 19, 20244 min read


Is consistency overrated?
It turns out, I took a break from blogging while I’ve been testing Keepin’ it REAL in the Age of AI. I wasn’t sure how much I would blog...

Ariana Friedlander
May 22, 20243 min read


Just 1 word
In a very predictable move, I've been reflecting a lot on this past year! I wonder if anyone else feels like 2023 has been a weird year?...

Ariana Friedlander
Dec 27, 20231 min read


The secret to finding and using your voice
My client self-identified as a highly sensitive person. She engaged my support because she was struggling to find and use her voice at...

Ariana Friedlander
Aug 16, 20233 min read


Whack-A-Mole of the heart
In November 2021, I received the news that I had multiple suspicious masses on my mammogram. I remember sitting in my car feeling like...

Ariana Friedlander
May 31, 20232 min read


"I don't know what I think until I read what I wrote."
Earlier this year my daughter was forlorn to miss school when they were teaching how to write essays. As a writer, I thought to myself,...

Ariana Friedlander
May 24, 20234 min read


Two tools for silencing the monkey brain chatter
The first time I led a Journaling and Mindfulness workshop a participant observed during debrief, “it was just a lot of monkey brain...

Ariana Friedlander
Apr 12, 20234 min read


The One Thing You Can Do About Dueling Priorities - Work vs. Life
As I've navigated making a major medical decision for myself this year, I have felt like the poster child for your brain on stress. And...

Ariana Friedlander
May 10, 20223 min read


A Simple Formula for Taking Risks
My friend decided to open a retail store in the midst of the pandemic. A move that felt incredibly risky to me. And yet, it's been such a...

Ariana Friedlander
Mar 8, 20223 min read


This I Believe...
I believe everything can be put into perspective by looking up at the sky. As a kid, I loved sitting in the hammock on summer nights...

Ariana Friedlander
Jan 25, 20222 min read


The Knowing
A few months ago I finished up work for the day and decided to head out for a walk before I went to acupuncture. As I walked by the...

Ariana Friedlander
Jan 20, 20225 min read


New Year, New...
I remember the first time I was cognizant of the New Year. It was 1989 and my parents let me stay up to watch the ball drop. In my mind,...

Ariana Friedlander
Jan 4, 20223 min read


Have you tried writing to the void?
Sometimes writing a blog feels like journaling. I get an idea and start writing. My writing takes on a life all its own - going places I...

Ariana Friedlander
Nov 23, 20215 min read


You're not pathetic, you're growing
Much to my surprise, I had been given an awesome opportunity at 5:30 pm and I had 24 hours to decide if I was going to say yes! It...

Ariana Friedlander
Oct 26, 20213 min read


Siya Vansia: Growth Mindset, Imposter Syndrome & Innovation
Siya Vansia took a job as an administrative assistant at a bank after graduating college because she wanted something that looked good on...

Ariana Friedlander
Oct 7, 20212 min read


"I can't say that"
After listening to a client divulge concerns that he'd been carrying around for a while, I asked. "What if you said that to your boss?"...

Ariana Friedlander
Sep 28, 20213 min read


And now for something completely different
As I look back on the last 10+ years in business, I can say with certainty - it has not gone at all as I planned. Some days that simple...

Ariana Friedlander
Sep 23, 20214 min read
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